Residents, Neighbours, Locals ( - what is community?)

My garden and driveway in UK were plagued by feline intruders, but only 2 or 3 of them and it didn't take long to establish the 'IT'S MINE, GO AWAY' rule.  It helped that the backyard had a very high fence all the way round.  It didn't help that there was a cat door in the fence between the driveway and the garden, but it was built for me so I guess I shouldn't complain.

Here the feline intruders can be identified as 
1. those that get fed at Effie's Feline Soup Kitchen in the carpark area underneath the building (residents).  F has given them all names so she can identify them when discussing them,
2. those that pass through from time to time or hang out within view of either balcony.  Some of these have names (neighbours), and
3. those we pass coming and going on our walks out (locals)

I have given them names too but they can't be printed in your alphabet. I spend quite a bit of time shouting at them to go away, but they run along the different levels in the retaining wall at the back like it's a motorway between other places to be.

Of the residents Mr B named the oldest scruffiest one Bagpuss.  He comes and goes.  He always looks well cared for when he turns up, and quickly descends into a state of filthy hobo again.

Mrs Calico was the first I actually encountered - me inside the lift lobby and her outside the glass at the front door.  She raised her paw and wiped the glass at me.  I've seen F stroking her fur, and she seems to be a special favourite of Effy.

Left-handed Cat - so called because he used to grab food pieces off F with his left paw, and because it is easier to say than Left-Sleeved-Jumper Cat (obviously his pullover only has a left sleeve).  What she perhaps doesn't know is we are all left-handed.  I suspect her of taking a special shine to that cat.  His jumper has stripes a bit like mine, but his underwear shows.
Someone put a cat scratching post in the garden


There are more cats with stripy jumpers and their underwear on display: Greedy Cat, Wee Bro Cat, and a few that have remained nameless because they simply cruise past on their motorway.

Wee Bro Cat and Little Miss Calico are siblings and were kittens last year.  Their black and white Mummy Cat was a resident last summer but disappeared after she weaned her offspring.  We saw her back briefly last week - heavily pregnant again...

Named neighbours are few - Curious Black being the main one.  It earned its name by sitting in the garden while F weeds, keeping a 4 or 5 foot distance but moving as F moves and watching the weeding.  The day we got home from our last road trip  it tried to inspect the inside of my van as my humans were unloading all the stuff they carry around. It's black in case you hadn't guessed from the name. 

The only other neighbour with  a name is The Worried Cat who looks, well, worried.  However, there are many, white, black, striped, blotched, dinner-suited, orange, calicoed, brindled and grey tabby (Tiggerish) cats that we recognize.

More distantly, in the surrounding neighbourhood are hoards (seriously, hoards) more of the same.  We recognize loads of these too, always see them in more or less the same places, associated with more or less the same other cats.

Humans believe cats are loners, and don't like other cats. And while it is true that (lions excepted) cats aren't know to hunt in groups or co-operate for mutual benefits or for the benefit of a wider group/community, cats do have community of sorts and that is not entirely due to behaviour modification based on the availability of human provided food.  Cat's live in colonies usually with some familial connections (like a tribe in primitive human terms).  Colonies stick to their areas.  

Humans are described as social animals.  My bees were highly social creatures too. How far does your community extend? How many of your neighbours do you know the names of? Interact with? Help out or work together with for the benefit of yourselves or others in your neighbourhood or locale?  Does that make you a community?
Me...contemplating....




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  1. Hari OM
    OOooohhh, Mr T... what questions. You see, I live in a tenement building with six units (flats) around the central entry stairway. My neighbours on the ground floor are Angie and Colin on one side and Billy in the flat beneath mine; A and C look after the back yard as they have grandchildren and a dog, so they make the most use of the place. Billy very kindly looks after taking the wheelie bins in and out on the days required and he sometimes helps lift heavy things up the stair for me.

    I have to say, now, that this is as far as it goes in terms of 'community' relations. The couple opposite me on level one are ...difficult people... rather antisocial. The chap above me I think may have Tourettes. I am giving him the benefit of the doubt for the conversations he has with the walls or the telephone (he lives solo) at decibels and indecent. Across from him has been moved in for about 18 months, but as I haven't been here, we've never set eyes on each other. 'S just how it is. Hugs and whiskeries, YAM-aunty xxx

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    1. Dear Yam-aunty - see F's comment to Sandra about networks of neighbourhoods sort of overlaid on one another. She reckons we don't all have to be besties with our immediate neighbours. xxx Mr T (I don't do friends with anyone feline, near or far.)

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  2. Thankfully we only have one cat intruder to bother about and none of us like him. For a start he's big and tough looking. Second he's not nice and dark like all of us but a bright orange and white.
    We send Rupert out to try to scare him away but he's not always successful and Mr orange and white is not scared easily so we have to get Mum to shoo him away for us.
    Rupert, Rowan, Princess, Willow and Mummy Polly
    xxxxx

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    1. There's no point sending my Mum out to shoo them - she'd feed them and have a conversation. xxx Mr T

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  3. about the trip to Rhodes, I would LOVE to see and visit Greece and wander with you and see all these aptly named community residents you have. as for us, we don't see cats or dogs except a few inside windows. there are 3 that we see once in a while, but very few. Cats I mean. as for community we are antisocial about neighbors and so are all of them... when we discuss neighbors, we say you know Toms house, or Kays house or Chucks house, Mike house. the funny thing is those neighbors were there when we moved here in 1989, and have been gone for years. we have no clue who lives there. Kays house is now known as the house of 7 cars, Toms is the College Kids house, by descripton not names. at times Toms house is called the beagle house, we have the Idiot barking dog, the crybaby dog, the big black dog house. sounds a lot like your life but different.

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    1. Interesting as I have always thought that it took a long time to become a meaningful part of any community and have moved around too much over the years to 'fit' properly. You, however describe the sort of community we moved into in UK - all established having bought their houses when they had family at home, all becoming 'retired' in the same decade. We were the youngsters, and as the older ones departed (one way or another), the next residents did not seem to form the same connections. We commute further for work, don't have kids at the same schools, don't belong to the same sports clubs.... My Dad was appalled when I lived in London that I didn't necessarily know my neighbours. He knew all his for miles around. His nearest neighbours were about half a mile away. My nearest friends were closer than that. If you overlaid his rural NZ 'neigbourhood' on London, my friends homes were about as spaced apart as those of his neighbours. He saw it differently after that.

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  4. They say that humans actually can't maintain more than about 150 connections - thereafter we spilt into sub groups - we see this in indigenous tribes, but also at modern workplaces, in local communities, in schools. I certainly don't have anywhere near that number of true acquaintances.

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    1. A friend told me once it was as low as 28 that we could keep track of their relationships with us and with each other (extended family/small tribal unit - whanau perhaps), beyond that they are acquaintances or connections and we do not have a deep understanding of how they all fit together. (I think she was discussing this in the context of FB friends, and how many are really 'friends'.) However I still think we can act out something that is a benefit to a wider community that we are part of without actually being able to personally identify all of the individuals within it.

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  5. we are visited in the night by stripey cat, ginger george, long legs, black kitty and white paws but i stay inside safe and watch them through the window in the sliding door - phoebe - sorry i don't know how to do big letters on taskers computery thing.

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    1. Phoebe, you need to get a secretary. They take a bit of training up, and you have to 'treat 'em mean' from time to time to remind them of their place but they can be quite useful too - especially if they have opposable thumbs. The way mine types you would think she is all thumbs. We used to have a 'long legs' in our back garden in Havant. I wonder if he emigrated as well. Yorkshire is foreign isn't it?

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  6. I remember the hoards of cats that lived near my aunt
    She would call out to them and feed them
    She too lives around where you do. So I guess maybe your feline friends have crossed paths with her feline friends

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  7. They say you are never more than 7 links away from any other person - looks like it applies to cats too

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  8. I take it the carpark cats are strays? Lucky I'm not there I'd want to home them.

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