The Down Escalator

Bugis Junction. 1800 hours. Tuesday.

I'm riding the up escalator heading back to my digs after work. People just finishing work in this mid-town area are riding the down escalator; densely packed, nearly one to every step.

Stand on the left. Walk on the right.   No one is walking on the down escalator.

I wish I could have filmed this for you.

Everyone on the down escalator had their phone out. 

I counted. And did maths. 90% of them had heads rounded downward focussed on their phone screen; not holding conversations, not sending messages, just looking at whatever 'content' it is their preference to 'consume'. The other 10% had their phones in hand, ready to consume at any moment's notice.

Does anyone look up these days? Look out? Look beyond? Imagine, dream, converse, smile at strangers, reach out, reach across....

Singapore is so safe; the people know themselves to be safe, kept safe by their government, so safe that many drift through their environment completely unaware of their surroundings, headphones on, eyes on their phones, no attention at all to what (or who) is happening around them.

Perhaps I should have entitled this post "How to be Alone in a Crowd".

They need a Donkey-riding Tigger to shake their complacency.



Footnote: I have discovered it is easy to be remembered by smiling at and saying good morning, or good evening to people (like the people at concierge desks). White haired European women are rare. Ones who greet you must be even more unusual - some of my 'victims' actually greet me first now - big smile, big good morning! I work in a 30 storied building.  Thousands of people.  The concierge people look so bored in the main reception. We all walk past them.  No one entering or leaving pays them any attention.

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  1. People miss so much when constantly on their 'phones. It distresses me to see mothers on their 'phones rather than talking to their children, pointing out interesting things, like the worms in the puddles, or the different drain covers.

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    1. I couldn't possibly agree more. How can we learn to exercise compassion or empathy if we don't observe, interact?

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  2. Airport departure lounges and railway carriages are full of people sat staring at their phones in my experience.

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    1. Perfect examples, but the 'behaviour' is widespread anywhere humans don't want to have to look at each other; don't want to challenge themselves to acknowledge another in close proximity.

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  3. I can tell you I never have my phone out in public, and have seen so many walking in stores, on sidewalks, every where doing this. we have no escalators here, the only place that had one was the mall that closed. i wish I could have seen the down escalator. I love to people watch and talk to strangers and smile and greet, just like you and I bet Tigger in the donkey would stir them up... I think I put off available for conversation vibes. the lady behind me in line to pay had a walker and a seat for sitting on in a bath. I turned and said they look like they are brand new, we were in a thrift store. she told me a long tale I will spare you of, about they were for her ex husband, she was with the current husband, and pointed to him and said we like him and he has no one to care for him... and now that i think of it half the people in a line of 9, were on their cells

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  4. Hari Om
    This is not something that is witnessed so much around these parts - but I did notice the tendency when staying in the city. Is it a phenomenon of the commuter, one wonders? And I am certain that Tigger would have been an absolute star within a matter of days! YAM xx

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    1. A feature of population density I opine. Perhaps despite being social creatures we are not evolved for such high density living and need to be in smaller more manageable social groups.

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  5. It's frightening. No communication. No empathy. How can we solve our problems?

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    1. Who knows but it just maybe that if people totally ignored one another there would be less passion and less conflict. It is not a world that I would want to live in (one where we ignore one another) but the idea of a world with none of our modern wars is appealing right now. Maybe wanting no war is a sign of my empathy for those afflicted. Thinking about it all troubles my brain.

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  6. Those eyes!
    We always try and greet a concierge..they deserve to be valued

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  7. In Scotland, if you go for a walk you can be sure that quite a few people will at least pause to say hi (to the dog). If you're out with Nobby it's quite possible they will stop to tell you all about the fox terrier their granny had when they were little and you can engage in a conversation about how naughty fox terriers are etc etc. Or if over a certain age they will recall a childhood toy and make a quip about "where are his wheels?"
    Cheers! Gail.

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  8. I don't have my phone out when I'm walking about...am far too nosy and wouldn't want to miss what's going on around me! Arilx

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    1. And that is what makes your blog posts interesting - your observations.

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  9. People joke that they would love to see a zombie apocalypse
    I tell them look around you. We have a zombie apocalypse right now.
    They don’t see it. They themselves are the zombies and they’re focused on their phones too

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    1. Welcome to the BORG. You will be assimilated.

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