Well that's the plan - reality may be a diversion from the plan. This kind of follows on from posts about van reconstruction but my train of thought was interrupted by trips to the north end of the island.
Days in the workshop end about 1800 depending on the heat in the day. Van and bikes aside I have tried to be useful to everyone whose life is disrupted by me being here longer than your average guest. I started out sharing prep of evening meals but it morphed - these days I do about 6 meals a week when I'm here. About half of the time there will be an 'extra'. There is a kind of open house policy that feeds anyone who is here at meal times. Halal is observed about half the time. Vegetarian options are always available.
After dinner the k9s join us for a leisurely stroll to ensure the chooks have all gone to roost and shut the door on their house. Chooks here recognize 'the red bucket' and and stragglers can be easily enticed in by waving the scrap bucket about before tossing the contents on the coop floor. Eleven chooks. 9 eggs per day. Lots of eggs get given away.
Vegie gardening gets a bit of my attention.
SiL's craft and sewing room (half the industrial sewing workshop) has been in use by me. I've done mending for Bro and Niece, made a sort of shoe filing system of hanging bags for Niece, and have sorted out the stored remants of my late mother's belongings to free up some space. Bro asked me to make canvas covers to tidy up seats on various tractors, trucks, diggers, ride on mowers, and the fork lift. That has been an exercise in wrestling with unfoldably tough fabric.
However, all this is nothing compared to what family are doing for me - after the van there came my little caravan; bought by me when I realized I couldn't fit out my van in any sensible way in any sort of record time. It seemed a good 'un when I bought it, and it is structurally, electrically and in plumbing sense sound. It's just the catalogue of little things...
I think you have the perfect idea. Everyone does what they’re good at and you all get helped with jobs. In this way you all get what you need, in good working order and for little money.
ReplyDeleteIf the whole world worked this way we would have world peace
They do say love of money is at the root of all evil. Money and 'resources'. I guess we are endeavouring to conserve resources by making best possible used of the already extracted....
DeleteGood to work with your Bro.
ReplyDeleteI like working with mine when I can.
Bro was a major factor in why I needed to come home. Even if we live at the other end of the island it's closer than half a planet away.
DeleteYou're a practical and inventive family. I don't think 'can't' has a place in your vocabulary.
ReplyDeleteWe are a neuro diverse family. Can't pops up a lot, but someone can (depending on what needs doing) and it fits together well enough. Some care for people, some make art, some engineer, some like order and routine. It rubs along.
DeleteHari OM
ReplyDeleteWhich all sounds like mutually agreed distribution of efforts and to everyone's benefit in varying degrees. Or, if you prefer, win-win! YAM xx
I have missed 30 years of this kind of living. As kids we lived on a farm with Dad's brother's family. Dad and his bro contributed their particular skills and interests to making the place work. We had role models I guess. It is hard for us to comprehend families that fall apart.
DeleteYou're a very handy family. Sounds as though you both enjoy a challenge too
ReplyDeleteWhen something needs fixing (let's say 'is less than optimal') Bro's motto seems to be: I could just go and buy a new/better one, but where's the fun in that?
DeleteI am just a tad jealous that you can do all of this because everything that you have said you do I have no clue how to do it and would not even want to learn haha. It sounds like the deal you made is working out perfectly for you and for your brother and his family I'm so glad that everything's working out for you
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure I want to be this way. It just seems to be a family characteristic - mend and make do (or build a better one). It's inherited.
DeleteAnno is madsnapper
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