Tuesday was sunny but kind of marred (or made real depending on your life philosophy) by a small sadness. Scully was unusually jumpy when she turned up. The noises that go with washing pots and cutlery in a stainless steel sink had her constantly startling and looking ready to run or fight.
Scully's Mum and sisters are out at a sports prizegiving this evening so we are having some quiet time together.
Never-the-less we had our usual walk and I set about the next task I'd set myself. I gave Scully a beefbone to keep her occupied while I worked and the neighbours had gone out leaving their own two dogs (a big soft Rhodesian Ridgeback and a small soft Bulldog) with the gated run of their own place. We talk to their dogs over (or through) the fence when we go past and Scully dotes on Nela the Ridgeback.
Neighbours came back and opened their gates while Scully was crunching on her bone a good 50metres (and out of site behind buildings and caravan) away but suddenly Scully decided the Bulldog was a threat to her bone and raced next door and snapped at the Bulldog.
Shouting next door.
I don't condone or excuse what Scully did. I thought she was better socialized. Neighbours came over later to tell me Scully is not welcome on their property. They know she's not my dog but it made me sad that her insecurities made a dark mark on my relationship with neighbours whom I value highly. It also made me sad that Scully knew she was in trouble and did 'apologetic' for hours afterwards.
At 1500 I cut short my work for the day and walked with Scully to the waterside where I watched her turn sticks into kindling, snap at bees and take a swim. Simple pleasures for both of us.
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Scully's Mum and sisters are out at a sports prizegiving this evening so we are having some quiet time together.
Hari Om
ReplyDeleteSomehow it's as mortifying - in some ways more so - than when a child gets reprimanded at school and asked to leave class. Such indiscretions are deeply disturbing, but they do ease over time. Provided there's no recurrence. I shall never forget that one day my Jade lost all control when The Black Poodle passed her gate just a tad too close. All her training and good canine citizen self disappeared into her inner wolf and she was over that gate before I could blink. A great deal of noise and movement, but (thanks be) no damage beyond a scratched nose on the other dog. I was mortified, and Jade went into 'sorry' mode for the best part of a week. TBP and its owner took to walking the other side of the street, but I always knew they were around because that was the only time Jade would bark out of control through our six-foot fence. ... Mind you, Jasper cat caused a slight neighbour discord once too... turned out he was bullying their two cats and going in and pinching all their food!!! The greedy guts, who was getting two square meals a day from me. YAM xx
What a beautiful spot to sit and relax after a fraught day.
ReplyDeleteI know that experience of feeling sad when social relationships are suddenly soured by another person's - or dog's - bad behaviour .. sigh ... 😒
I'm so sorry to read this and know how you must feel. It takes a long time to get over such an incident. Poor Scully was clearly unsettled from the start of the day, but dogs don't behave 'out of character' - they can't, so something was amiss. Time will tell.
ReplyDeleteIt was a peaceful end to your day - looks blissful.
That is why our dogs, were/are not off leash unless in our own fenced back yard. dogs, no matter what breed can have a moment that they feel threatened. Even Beau who has zero aggression, and does even chase critters or cats, when someone comes as a stranger to take bob away in the wheel chair, I hold on to him for just in case. I am so sad for Scully and for you and the neighbors that this happened and glad that no harm was done to either dog or a person. our Baby Girl was part Rodesian and so gentle and kind and beautiful
ReplyDeleteI hope the awkwardness of the situation passes.
ReplyDeleteI would of been mortified if that had happened to me.
I do hope that the dogs are all ok. It probably scared the owners
And that’s why they came over
Unfortunately sometimes it’s the little things that can turn into big issues.
I hope it all calm down and life will get back to what you had
Bone defence mode is always a problem 😕
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