Long Time

It feels like forever since I composed a post. Energy is being consumed by other things. Routine, changed for Mr B’s arrival, doesn't seem to have settled. Work to run a household has multiplied (no more cook once a week and eat the same meal for days). I can no longer live the simplest of lives - someone else's welfare needs considering and nurturing.

Scully meanwhile is also in school holiday mode - arriving late and then wondering why no walk, sharing her time and enthusiasm between two households. We walk when she does arrive early, we swim on hot afternoons.

This week has been special. Cousin Amy arrived last Monday. On Tuesday she walked from here to Nydia Bay and back in just over 4 hours.  I should have joined her but wonder if I could have maintained that pace.

Bro, SiL, and the young prince arrived on Wednesday accompanied by terrier Jock. They have spent nearly every day going fishing but they did bring with them a sea kayak we'd bought on an online auction site from a place they passed en route.  It means being able to get out on the water when conditions are a bit rough for the paddleboard.

Jock meanwhile has finally made friends with Scully and the pair of them keepp us entertained chasing one another about the place doing speed demons.

Another cousin from Aus breezed through on Thursday (with her husband and kids) - good to see her after so many years.

Amongst this we've been working on clearing some of the tall gorse on the overgrown third of our land. Before I moved here to live full time some unkind person cut down a number of the larger native trees in the overgrown part. It opened up light wells that have encouraged the gorse to grow back with vigour - just as shade was beginning to successfully suppress it. 

I seem to be out and about without my phone these days - photos when I remember to do them.

Guess who squashed her 'puppy'!

Comments

  1. You've been busy, and doing family stuff..which is good news in itself. That was an impressive walk. I don't think that I'd have kept up either!!

    Hi Scully...glad to hear that you've been doing Zoomies with Jock..and keeping an eye those humans when you can!

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  2. Adapting to a new way of life must take time I suppose. You are certainly keeping busy though.
    Oh Scully, the demon squasher.

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  3. Hari Om
    Lots of distraction in real life - blogging has to take a back seat at such times, but very glad to see this update. I do hope there is a replacement 'puppy' waiting in the wings - though I did find with Jade dog that the damaged favourite was still hunted out for a while. A lot of effort went into creating the 'patina'! YAM xx

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  4. You can ignore my question in email, this is the update I asked for. I can feel every thing you wrote here, the in between the lines feelings. this sounds so much like some of what I have gone through.
    the happiest moments of this past year were the 5 weeks Bob was in hospital/rehab. Just me and the dog is a total change from having a male 'dependent" . After 9 months of it, I long for solitude, and the cooking you describe here. Having a dog and a man as dependents, can easily frustrate us to the point of distress at times. PLUS the visits from everyone add to the stress even when its joyful to see your friends and family, it is stressful because we are creatures of habit and the habits are broken. my mother had a totally different personality than I have and the more people that showed up the more she loved it..
    thanks for the update, hug Scully for me and hope things calm down soon. Trees being cut down just add to my frustration for sure.

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  5. You sound more than usually busy. It's good to have visitors but they do upset any sort of routine.

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  6. You've had a lot of visitors breezing through. Obviously you're in a wonderful position. I'd love to breeze through there too.
    Good old Scully. Lots of dog fun.
    Good luck with the gorse. Though it's not luck you need. Just hard work.
    Go girl 😁

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  7. Alhough it is wonderful to read your pst and "see" you, I do love that you are out living your best life!

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  8. Have you found georgepenneyauthor on Instagram or substack?
    Read..and have a smile. I think George lives around Nelson.

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  9. Bummer about the trees- they take so many decades to grow large enough to make a difference! I hope that you plant more and have decades in your favor. A four hour walk to cover that much land is super power walking, Flying! I could not do that, I am in awe! Adapting and adjusting ...always. Simplifying life gets complicated! The pup is ADORABLE!!!

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  10. A busy time of year making it even more hectic with visitors
    I’m sure Mr B will settle eventually and he will grow to love it as much as you do

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  11. No doubt Scully will be enjoying the extra attention and pats from the humans.

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